{"id":813,"date":"2020-12-10T11:40:08","date_gmt":"2020-12-10T16:40:08","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/tjptsa.com\/?p=813"},"modified":"2021-01-18T12:17:50","modified_gmt":"2021-01-18T17:17:50","slug":"2020-12-09-being-a-present-parent-slides","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/tjptsa.com\/archive\/2020-12-09-being-a-present-parent-slides\/","title":{"rendered":"2020-12-09 Being a Present Parent (slides)"},"content":{"rendered":"\n<div class=\"wp-block-file\"><a href=\"https:\/\/tjptsa.com\/archive\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/The-Power-of-Showing-Up.pdf\">The Power of Showing Up<\/a><a href=\"https:\/\/tjptsa.com\/archive\/wp-content\/uploads\/2020\/12\/The-Power-of-Showing-Up.pdf\" class=\"wp-block-file__button\" download>Download<\/a><\/div>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Click the above link to download the slides from &#8220;Being a Present Parent&#8221; discussion series led by Danielle Armstrong, LCSW, TJ Social Worker (Oct-Nov 2020). Based on the book <a href=\"https:\/\/www.amazon.com\/Power-Showing-Up-Parental-Presence\/dp\/1524797715\">&#8220;The Power of Showing Up: How Parental Presence Shapes Who Our Kids Become and How Their Brains Get Wired,&#8221; by Daniel J. Siegel, MD, and Tina Payne Bryson, PhD. <\/a><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Key concept:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\">Parents can focus on building a relationship with their child involving the 4 \u201cS\u201ds so they can build confidence and resilience as they grow toward adulthood and independence:<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Safe:<\/strong> feel protected and sheltered from harm<\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Seen:<\/strong> know you care about them and pay attention to them (gives<br>mindsight&#8211;knowing you have feelings and thoughts that are real and are worth<br>being loved and paid attention to)<br><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Soothed: <\/strong>know you will be there when they\u2019re hurting (life comes with pain, but<br>won\u2019t have to go through it alone)<br><\/p>\n\n\n\n<p class=\"wp-block-paragraph\"><strong>Secure:<\/strong> trust you to predictably help them feel \u201cat home\u201d in the world, then learn to<br>help themselves feel safe, seen and soothed<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>Click the above link to download the slides from &#8220;Being a Present Parent&#8221; discussion series led by Danielle Armstrong, LCSW, TJ Social Worker (Oct-Nov 2020). Based on the book &#8220;The Power of Showing Up: How Parental Presence Shapes Who Our Kids Become and How Their Brains Get Wired,&#8221; by Daniel J. Siegel, MD, and Tina [&hellip;]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"nf_dc_page":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[7,12,26],"tags":[],"class_list":["post-813","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","hentry","category-health-and-wellness","category-news","category-past-news"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"https:\/\/tjptsa.com\/archive\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/813","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"https:\/\/tjptsa.com\/archive\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts"}],"about":[{"href":"https:\/\/tjptsa.com\/archive\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/post"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/tjptsa.com\/archive\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/tjptsa.com\/archive\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=813"}],"version-history":[{"count":4,"href":"https:\/\/tjptsa.com\/archive\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/813\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":1037,"href":"https:\/\/tjptsa.com\/archive\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/posts\/813\/revisions\/1037"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"https:\/\/tjptsa.com\/archive\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=813"}],"wp:term":[{"taxonomy":"category","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/tjptsa.com\/archive\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/categories?post=813"},{"taxonomy":"post_tag","embeddable":true,"href":"https:\/\/tjptsa.com\/archive\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/tags?post=813"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}